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samedi 24 août 2013

Communication Skills: Avoiding The Awkward Silence

By J. Ryu


You finally manage to approach a pretty woman. Utilizing your spectacular communication skills, you strike up a conversation without getting slapped or chased away. The conversation with this girl is going great. She's smiling, giggling, obviously becoming more interested and more intrigued as the conversation rolls along.

Then...it happens. Call it a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing that matters is, it brings the conversation to a complete halt and you can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than your ego. She looks at you expectantly, then disappointedly, then disinterestedly, then dismissively. Game over.

So whatever can you do to pull the conversational nose-dive back into the high flying conversation it was? You go into your tool kit. Your communication skills toolbox. You are about to learn one of the downright best conversation-saving tools available. This is a guaranteed way to save any conversation with a girl, PLUS it's so perfectly constructed, that it easily allows sexual innuendo to get her mind "in the right spot" while still being in the context of pure, non-needy and fun banter.

It's a little game called "SMK" and it will be your wingman. If you utilize this new wingman of yours, SMK, any interaction about in free fall will instantly be turned around. You will jump past the typical dork that approaches her with the same old dull pickup lines and dull conversations.

When you start to run out of things to say, just as you can feel that her attraction is about to start dipping down... You turn to her, and you say: "Hey, let's play a game real quick." Watch as her eyes sparkle with curiosity. This is a departure from the normal night-time drivel she's used to dealing with. She will almost certainly invite you to proceed.

Onwards the game. Start to look around the room, assessing the other guys you see and begin to point them out individually, and ask her "ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?" She'll laugh at first. Then she'll evaluate your target and size him up. Select different kinds of men representing the spectrum of character styles and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A good-looking guy. An artist. A business man.

This has several different purposes

1) You will get an insight into what she values in a guy, and how she thinks. She will give really direct tips to how she wants to be seduced. If she says "sleep with" to the artist, "marry" to the nerdy guy, and "kill" to the guy in a business suit ... then you can guess that she's got a wild side, she doesn't like guys with a great deal of structure, and she's a secret nerd. Think of that ... she'll essentially be giving you a HUGE tip into the best ways to seduce her.

2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so crucial to the first stage of the interaction. Keep conversation light, non-needy (teasing her playfully) and fun! Make fun and silly projections about who you guess she'd fuck, marry and kill. It will be remarkably easy as she's alternating between giggling at her own qwerky tastes, cringing at the dopey guys, and switching to her "ooh la la" voice with the guys that turn her on.

3) Which brings me to my next point...SHE WILL GET TURNED ON. Remember, you are asking her to bring the thought "who do I want to fuck?" into her mind, and all in the context of an experience that was generated by and shared with you...and only you.

4) Lastly ... she will see that you are 100 % confident in your sexuality and your potential to attract women. You can confidently discuss the theoretical idea of her sleeping with various other men, which doesn't threaten you. 99.99% of dudes would be terrified to even suggest that she even look at another man when he's speaking to her! Your confidence here will be really hot to women.

After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be very turned on by your imagination, your playfulness, and your confidence ... This sets you up PERFECTLY to shift into the next stage of interaction, which builds upon the sexual energy in this game, particularly if you've been appropriately blending in the right "sexual triggers" that all women have.




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