You find yourself walking down the street with no expectations, when you see your future sweetheart walking along minding her own business. She immediately catches your eye and your heart. You want to meet her, you want to stop her, approach her, and have a deep discussion with her.
Then you start thinking how she would respond if a bum like you accosted her in the middle of the day, on a strange street. Because if a real bum were to accost YOU in the middle of the street, you 'd feel harassed, agitated, and/or a little bit scared.
Well, trying to stop a woman in the street is just about like that. Everybody wants to feel busy, engaged, and self important so a woman walking busily down the street is in a hurry to get somewhere not that terribly important. A strange man stopping her from her mission is akin to a bum stopping you for money. Because of the mission oriented mindset of the woman, the success rate of stopping and positively engaging a woman is LOW. A woman doesn't want to be stopped. Even if they're going nowhere, they still think they're going somewhere. The concept of meeting a woman on the street just doesn't work.
Then what should you do? Should you just let that cutie walk along and out of your life? No way! There is a way, a better way then trying to stop a woman on the street. A way that makes the conditions to approach her much more favorable for success.
Simply, do not attempt to stop a moving target on a mission ... follow her. Don't creep up on her, don't rush after her, and definitely don't stalk her! Just do some Mission Impossible recon and follow her. Follow her since folks walking on the road are not walking far. If they're walking, they're walking to someplace close, otherwise they 'd be driving in their car. So if you see a woman walking down the road, chances are good, she is going to some place close.
Be like 007, cool and inconspicuous, and tail her. You can regroup and come up with a game plan once she has actually stopped and you have ascertained her destination. Depending on the kind of spot and atmosphere, you will need to readjust your opening but once she has actually settled at her destination, you can approach her like normal in an environment that is a lot more conducive to approaching.
A stationary target is much easier to hit then a moving one. So be patient, get in touch with your inner 007, do some mission impossible spy work, and approach her at the right time.
Then you start thinking how she would respond if a bum like you accosted her in the middle of the day, on a strange street. Because if a real bum were to accost YOU in the middle of the street, you 'd feel harassed, agitated, and/or a little bit scared.
Well, trying to stop a woman in the street is just about like that. Everybody wants to feel busy, engaged, and self important so a woman walking busily down the street is in a hurry to get somewhere not that terribly important. A strange man stopping her from her mission is akin to a bum stopping you for money. Because of the mission oriented mindset of the woman, the success rate of stopping and positively engaging a woman is LOW. A woman doesn't want to be stopped. Even if they're going nowhere, they still think they're going somewhere. The concept of meeting a woman on the street just doesn't work.
Then what should you do? Should you just let that cutie walk along and out of your life? No way! There is a way, a better way then trying to stop a woman on the street. A way that makes the conditions to approach her much more favorable for success.
Simply, do not attempt to stop a moving target on a mission ... follow her. Don't creep up on her, don't rush after her, and definitely don't stalk her! Just do some Mission Impossible recon and follow her. Follow her since folks walking on the road are not walking far. If they're walking, they're walking to someplace close, otherwise they 'd be driving in their car. So if you see a woman walking down the road, chances are good, she is going to some place close.
Be like 007, cool and inconspicuous, and tail her. You can regroup and come up with a game plan once she has actually stopped and you have ascertained her destination. Depending on the kind of spot and atmosphere, you will need to readjust your opening but once she has actually settled at her destination, you can approach her like normal in an environment that is a lot more conducive to approaching.
A stationary target is much easier to hit then a moving one. So be patient, get in touch with your inner 007, do some mission impossible spy work, and approach her at the right time.
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