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mardi 6 août 2013

Why Is Female Masturbation Looked Down On In The United States

By Patricia E. Beeson


Females who are in need of sexual gratification often turn to masturbation to achieve their sexual and psychological objectives. Many married and single women often masturbate and explore their erogenous zones so as to have orgasm whenever they need it. A lot of women even masturbate and achieve multiple orgasm during one erotic masturbation session.
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But just how should a woman go about pleasuring herself? It seems that all a man needs to do is hold on and rub himself the right way, but it's a bit more difficult for a woman to masturbate to a climax. But once you learn, it can not only be a relaxing and pleasurable thing to do if your lover is out of town or maybe he is a soldier deployed overseas and you aren't together, but it can also teach you things you can do together once he is back in the picture!

First, it's a good idea to have a supply of lubricant before you set off to masturbate. You should also have clean hands and cut fingernails so you don't hurt yourself. It's a known fact that if your hands are dirty and you touch your vaginal area, then you could introduce some bacteria and cause a nasty bladder infection and that's no fun at all!

The special part of a woman's body that she really needs to learn how to pleasure is the clitoris. A woman's clitoris is similar to a guy's penis and in some ways it actually does look like a tiny little penis. It has a hood and the button to "push" is the tiny little sensitive area under that hood. When you gentle rub it, first slow, then gradually faster and with more pressure, it starts to swell just like a man's penis does and the hood will come up over it. By that point, you should really be starting to pant and sweat and feel good if you have done it the right way.

In the 1960's women began to see that sexual repression was one of the biggest things that prevented them from being equals with men. By flaunting their sexual prowess with female masturbation women are able to overcome the diminished role that society put them in as simply being baby making machines. Since then women have risen to the highest parts of business and government. So feel free to let loose and masturbate in order to liberate.

The male experience is shorter but more intense. The female experience is longer but lower overall. My experience of female masturbation is that the initial phase can be horizontal - nothing happens. I lie there waiting for the inspiration of an effective fantasy.But once that spark takes light, my experience is similar to a man's. Within a minute or two the whole thing is over. The build up is quick and the sensations of release are sexually satisfying. The aftermath of orgasm involves a sense of relief followed by blissful relaxation.

Build up with a partner takes much longer than a few seconds. But also the sensations are more pleasurable and physically intense as he stimulates me. My mind has no conscious focus except the sensations of my partner touching me and thinking about his erection.For me, orgasm with a partner includes pelvic contractions but there is not the same sense of release. Using fantasy allows me to be the woman but also to identify with the man at the point of orgasm as he thrusts and ejaculates to orgasm. Perhaps this ability to superimpose the act of male ejaculation on my orgasm produces my sense of release.

All in all, masturbating can bring a woman pleasure and can even bring excitement into a relationship. For instance, if you are away from your lover but you both have access to a webcam, it can be super exciting for you to masturbate while he watches! That can get you both going so when you are able to get back together you are in for a hot time in the ole bedroom for sure!

Few men would attempt to reach orgasm without stimulating their penis and yet many experts still claim that clitoral stimulation is not necessary for a woman to orgasm during sex. It is true that women do not tend to approach sex looking for genital stimulation but this is because they are not necessarily in a state of mental arousal where genital stimulation makes sense.Since relatively few women masturbate, most women are unfamiliar with what orgasm feels like and how to achieve it. Instead of seeking genital stimulation from sex, many women prefer to limit their sexual experiences to vaginal intercourse, called 'making love'




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