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samedi 29 mars 2014

Temper Tantrums: A Pound Of Prevention And 16 Pounds Of Cure

By Leanna Rae Scott


Temper tantrums aren't usually thought of as totally preventable or totally curable. Most parenting advice givers unapologetically advise that temper tantrums are a natural, normal, and highly unavoidable part of raising kids. They will, however give ideas for preventing some of the tantrums by conscientiously avoiding tantrum triggers such as hunger, tiredness, and frustration.

Parents can continue believing that temper tantrums will be around long term because parenting advisers have been saying they will be for generations. If you do, you won't get any resistance from me. I'll just remain quiet like I've been doing for the past thirty some years while I've been impatiently getting ready to dispense my temper tantrum elimination and prevention secrets with parents. But if you can clear your mind to the possibility that tantrums are 100% curable and preventable, I'm finally, after decades, ready to share.

My first five kids all threw tantrums...none of my last eight did. My fifth child, at 14 months old, was forever finished with temper tantrums by a week or so after I found out what needed to be changed in my parenting methods. Since that event I've consistently and thoroughly tested out my tantrum-preventing techniques on my own kids, and I have tested the validity of most mainstream parenting advice regarding child discipline.

As examples, I was able to figure out how to get overall, general cooperation from toddlers, how to get out of arguments with older children, and to calculate the exactly perfect duration of groundings for kids. As well, I have been able to explain why time-outs are such a troublesome, dysfunctional discipline method, one that's not nearly as helpful as many others.

I share with other parents, all of those parenting skills, plus more. The biggest thing I give, though, is the curative and preventive methods needed to totally eliminate temper tantrums from children's behavioral repertoire.




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