Looking to improve your sex life quickly? Well let me help you now, by giving you some simple tips to amaze your lover that you can use tonight.

In this article (which will take you less than 5 minutes to read) I will give you food for thought. Plus tools that will make you a successful lover and leave your partner in state of bliss.

Being A "Sexual Dominater"

Guys you have to be strong and confident if not your doomed to fail. Women love strong men, so want a man who is going to take control. They want an alpha male not someone who is unsure of himself.

They are hard-wired that way. It is a primal thing... It's about pro-creating with a man that will be able to look after their off-spring.

That means she is looking for you to show her new positions, please her in new ways. It is the man who has to take control as they are the ones that thrusting and "entering" the woman.

By taking control not only do you get more enjoyment but she will love the feeling of being controlled.

How Do You Become A "Sexual Dominater"

Well there are a few tips I can give you.

1) Don't Ask Just Act

Nothing spoils the mood for a woman as quickly as man asking her every two minutes is that "OK" or asking if he should speed up or slow down. If she doesn't like something you are doing she will soon tell you.

My tips is to take control but always be respectful and make sure she is comfortable.

2) Show Your Strength

Be playful but show your strength. For example you can "pin her arms down". This makes for great foreplay. As she gets to act as a damsel in distress and try to get out from under you. However always remember to make sure it is always "within limits".

Foreplay First - Don't Rush Ahead To Quickly

Guys we always think with our dick it's true. Women are different. Foreplay refers to acts that excite lovers before sexual penetration. You can approach foreplay in a number of ways and it doesn't always have to involve physical contact.

Let me give you an example, think about your communication when approaching sex. Talking dirty can get things going. However if you go too far then she just ends up "plain feeling dirty". You need to mix it up a little with compliments too.

So let's say when you are kissing her neck you whisper dirty things in her ear. If you are kissing her belly button your telling her how sexy she is and what you want to do to her later.

Keep It Moving Boys

If you have found a great spot that is getting your woman all hot and bothered, job well done BUT remember to mix it up. Move between that spot an others too. If you spend too much time on one spot she will eventually get bored.

What If She Starts To Get Bored?

Look sometimes you have had great foreplay and you move on to having penetrative sex. All seems to be going well and then suddenly she seems disinterested.

Guys this is normal. It is the way women are wired. It is well-known fact that 55% of women cannot reach orgasm from vaginal sex alone. So if she gets bored move back to some foreplay and concentrate on some other erogenous zones like nibbling her ears and kissing around the neck and collar-bone.

Make Her Wait - Build Up The Tension

Nothing build up some tension like being made to wait right? You can introduce that into your sex life. Guys don't just go with some ordinary thrusting.

Change the pace such as once you've done some "traditional" in-and-out style thrusting. Stop and make her wait to build up her anticipation. Then a great technique to use is to enter her and then gently circle your hips.

Why? Well that way your penis circles around her vagina and hits all the surfaces. You can mix this up with some in-and-out thrusting too.

I have more great information to share with you. You can watch my video " Be The Ultimate Lover " where I go into more details about how to send your women wild.

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