Powerful Secrets of How to Restore a Broken Relationship

Whether returning to a previous relationship with an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband, restoring a 'dead' relationship can be a lonely road to walk-a road less travelled. It does little harm if you tried. In fact, I can most certainly assure you that the efforts are worth it in many cases.

Restoring a broken relationship can be a tall task, for sure-because of its unpopular streak. For one thing, not many people will be in your boat. For another, many people, including your own close friends, will thump up their nose and say, 'You know better what to do with a dead thing? Bury it, not revive it'. Only a handful, if any, will come around and cheer you on. So, you are very much on your own when you embark on such a journey. But with you and your God, the potentials are there for you to strike it big with success.

I know of two women who broke up with their husbands, had children prior to the break-up, who returned to that same home over ten years later. Yes, a lot of water had gone under the bridge-so what? I know of ladies who broke-up with their ex-boyfriends who made up years later, when the ex- came calling, pleading for a re-think. It's called old-fashion forgiveness--a veritable relationship tool.
You may not have many well-wishers cheering you on, but with a dogged determination and courage, believe in your God and in yourself on what you have decided to do, your efforts can pay you large dividends.

The beautiful thing about these situations is that a 'bad' or broken relationship has seeds of repair and promise right inside of itself, not outside of it. This is evident in the eyes that take pains to look out for them. We can do this the same way we look for something to praise in anyone, if we want to and if we're prepared to look for it. This is because for the most part, many relationships do have potentials to develop and heal in response to pain, adversity or conflict no matter how devastating.

Therefore, take pains to look for a solution. You can have your partner back. Usually, the grass appears greener in the other neighbor's yard. And you think, 'O look at Carol and Bob. They're having such a great time in their relationship'. Not necessarily so. It has taken hard work to get to where they are--with giving and taking--of bruises and praises, and offences and forgiveness.

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