Have You Created A Vision For Your Relationship

Often times when I speak to people about creating a vision for their relationships, they see the sense in it, but don't feel as though it is something they could actually do. They often feel as though it's impossible to do by themselves and if they are already in a relationship they feel restricted, so they never actually try. However when I share that they are already unconsciously creating a vision by living out old beliefs about relationships, which have been handed down to them by family members and or society; then they get it.

Whether you are single and desiring a relationship or wherever you are already in a relationship, it is not too late to create the relationship you desire. It is of course much easier to do when you can plan ahead before you meet the person, however many couples who have a loving and lasting relationship will testify that they keep reinventing their relationship that is why its lasting. They co-create what they desire and you can do that too. Although this is not the case for everyone, some people choose to live in other people's ideals of relationship.

In fact many people have surrendered their desires and so live in a painful and very stagnant relationship simply because they don't realise that they are a part of their own pain. However by adopting the belief that you are not the creator of your relationships you are disempowering yourself, because as you've already discovered you are creating unconsciously or consciously. Have you ever asked yourself, where did I learn about relationships or how to be a loving partner?

Everyone desires a joyful relationship, one where they are accepted, deeply loved and appreciated. Would you agree with that? Well you can have that kind of relationship, but you first have to believe. You have to be willing to be honest about what you want. Believe it or not your partner wants you to be happy with them. They might feel overwhelmed at you being open, but when you seek to communicate in a non-threatening and loving way they are most likely to do their best of overcome whatever issues they have that might stand in the way of the overall progress in that relationship.

The key is to love regardless, to understand you both may have fears, but to find the courage to ultimately create what is liberating and beautiful for you both. You can do it! Don't settle for not saying anything at all because all that does is open you up to misinterpretation. Face your fears and be honest about the love you wish to create with your significant other. Go and create a vision that brings love, fruitfulness and happiness to those around you because they are so inspired.

Go on you can do it!! Just believe!!

After all isn't that what you would want someone else to do?

There are many keys to success like, getting our mindset open for it, having persistence and being around people who are thinking like we think and having someone on your side whose only motive is to see you operate in your full potential. If you should desire to have this contact me Donniece Greene-Smith